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Monday 21 March 2011

Uncertainty and its Outcome!


 ~ There is no such uncertainty as a sure thing. ~                                                     - Robert Burns
                   No matter how much you plan, Uncertainty always creeps in. Life always surprises you with the monster called "Uncertainty"  I hate this word Uncertainty coz no matter how much you have Plan A and Plan B in place it just comes uninvited!!!  Someone has rightly said that ''You cannot be certain about uncertainty.''
Few classic examples of such unexpected events that has occurred in the recent past is when Mom was unwell almost 15 days after my marriage, Lost my Uncle in a gruesome accident and my Aunt and her daughter was admitted to the hospital, On the next weekend Granny had a fracture and was operated, Later Mom had a leg fracture and in all these occasions I had to go to Mom's house to accompany and be there!! Also heard that another Aunt was also hospitalized and a Cousin Sis was diagnosed for Cancer and her Thyroid was removed. One more such week was when FIL was admitted to the hospital and before that my BIL underwent surgery for his Fracture…

                   Was talking to a cousin about all these events and heard that her family also had series of such sufferings.. That’s when we both suddenly realized how much less control we have on our lives! I started having a feeling that enuf of all these Hospitals and doctors… Let me live my life how I feel coz you never know what life has to offer you tomorrow!! Eat wat you like, do what you want and stop worrying abt what might happen tomorrow coz You never know what Life offers you in the very next moment! Life is all about uncertainties and causalities that forces you to believe that life is a short journey!

                  I guess dats y there is a saying "Live Life King size!!" This reminds me of a very meaningful song that suits the situation from the Movie "Kal Ho Na Ho"

Har Ghadi Badal Raha Hai Roop Zindagi
Chaav Hai Kahhi Hai Dhoop Zidnagi
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Ghadi Badal Raha Hai Roop Zindagi
Chaav Hai Kahhi Hai Dhoop Zidnagi
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho

Chaahe Jo Tumhe Poore Dil Se
Milta Hai Woh Mushkil Se
Aisa Jo Koi Kahin Hai
Bas Vahi Sabse Hasin Hai
Us Haath Ko Tum Thaam Lo
Woh Meherbaan Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho

Palko Ke Leke Saaye
Paas Koi Jo Aaye
Lakh Sambhalo Paagal Dil Ko
Dil Dhadke Hi Jaaye
Par Sochlo Is Pal Hai Jo
Woh Dastan Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho
Har Pal Yahan
Jee Bhar Jiyo Jo Hai Sama
Kal Ho Na Ho

On a much smaller scale - Just when I thought creeps in that the week was hectic and I need a relaxing weekend something or the other happens that also needs immediate attention, may be in a much smaller scale- The maid takes a leave just when you don’t have mood to clean the house, The cook doesn’t turn up just when you feel like cooking something special for everyone!! Agggggh You feel so frustrated and angry yet helpless!!

                 Experienced one such situatuion last weekend but Thanks to my Hubby who took me out on Sunday even though there was a cricket Match where India was playing against WI( World Cup 2011). The maid and the cook disappointed me But my Hubby did not :)
                 Went out to a nice restaurant suggested by a Cousin Bro "The Egg Factory" for Lunch n then had Hot chocolate @ "The Chocolate Factory" filled up ourselves with lotzz of Calories and returned home forgetting abt all the worries and undone work.
                 Had a nice nap after I returned where in Hubby indulged in watching cricket. Got up and was in full mood to prepare something special than the usual Roti + Sabzi… Prepared garam garam Aloo paranthas blended with Butter milk! Discharged ourselves by watching MTV Rodies audition just b4 bed to wake up to a New fresh Monday Morning ready to rush to work!!




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